One of the first things you should consider is location and size. A majority of woman prefer, a small discreet tattoo for their first one especially one you can hide, my question is WHY? I know from personal experience you are only going to want it made bigger. So what I suggest doing is looking at all the sexy tattoos for women finding a few you like and can imagine on your body, speak to your artist and let him know that you want to start small, so you know you like it and if you do you will come back to get it made more beautiful and bold. If your artist is worth his salt he will know what to do, and don't get rushed into something you are not sure of or don't want!
Whatever category you are looking in tribal, floral etc. speak to the artist and have a look at his portfolio ask him or her for any suggestions on sexy tattoos for women. Don't just be taken in by all the pretty designs for big butch guys. There are millions of designs out there like butterfly designs, fairy designs and don't just get black as a colour you have such a wide choice to chose from like black and grey or shade, there are so many beautiful and vibrant colours to choose from your imagination will be your limit. With the right artist your tattoo won't become an eye sore that you want to hide. It will be your little piece of art that you carry around with your everywhere.
Some of my favorite tattoo designs you can find online, it gives you a larger choice than with most shops. Simply because not all shops can afford to keep up with all the latest trends and I like to be spoiled for choice. That becomes a problem too. There are so many online shops and galleries to go to where would you even begin. What I found instead of going through all the competition and finding out I am not finding what I want, which has happened a few times after paying for a subscription. I used a tattoo review site. I believe it to be honest since the scores or rating would change every now and then and when one site wasn't performing or a better one came into the game, the poor rating site would fall out of favor. I like that it shows good customer service and that your satisfaction is a high priority.
So no matter what design you choose you know there are millions of sexy tattoos for women, good luck and enjoy.